All my upbringing was to instill into both my sister and I a fantastic sense of duty, a great sense of whatever you do you are personally responsible for it. You do not blame society. Society is not anyone. You are personally responsible and just remember that you live among a whole lot of people and you must do things for them, and you must make up your own mind. That was very very strong, very strong. I remember my father sometimes saying to me if I said: "Oh so and so is doing something; can't I do it too?” You know, children do not like to be different. "You make up your own mind what you are going to do, never because someone else is doing it!” and he was always very stern about that. It stood one in good stead.