...But as far as the novel makes reference to that, Miguel seems to be willing to concede to the mother's care more than enforce macho authority over the sickly boy. Miguel is a man of the new millennia. He listens to what his significant other opines. As an educated individual, he also turns to literature for answers. He reflects on his failed marriage and tries to learn from it rather than shut down and repeat his mistakes. There is a deep desire to find spiritual and romantic fulfillment. He's willing to find new ways to do that within the constrictions of society's patriarchal institutions.