Deborah Tannen quotes

The biggest mistake is believing there is one right way to listen, to talk, to have a conversation - or a relationship. (Deborah Tannen)
For most women, the language of conversation is primarily a language of rapport: a way of establishing connections and negotiating relationships. View quote
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We tend to look through language and not realize how much power language has. View quote
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Communication is a continual balancing act, juggling the conflicting needs for intimacy and independence. To survive in the world, we have to act in concert with others, but to survive as ourselves, rather than simply as cogs in a wheel, we have to act alone. View quote
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Relationships are made of talk - and talk is for girls and women. View quote
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Each person's life is lived as a series of conversations. View quote
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We all know we are unique individuals, but we tend to see others as representatives of groups. View quote
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Each underestimates her own power and overestimates the other's. View quote
Deborah Tannen