Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi quotes

A joyful life is an individual creation that cannot be copied from a recipe. (Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi)
Most enjoyable activities are not natural; they demand an effort that initially one is reluctant to make. But once the interaction starts to provide feedback to the person's skills, it usually begins to be intrinsically rewarding. View quote
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Enjoyment appears at the boundary between boredom and anxiety, when the challenges are just balanced with the person's capacity to act. View quote
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The task is to learn how to enjoy everyday life without diminishing other people's chances to enjoy theirs. View quote
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A Web site that promotes flow is like a gourmet meal. You start off with the appetizers, move on to the salads and entrees, and build toward dessert. Unfortunately, most sites are built like a cafeteria. You pick whatever you want. That sounds good at first, but soon it doesn't matter what you choose to do. Everything is bland and the same. View quote
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Goals transform a random walk into a chase. View quote
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People enter Web sites hoping to be led somewhere, hoping for a payoff. View quote
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If we know what that set point is, we can predict fairly accurately when you will be in flow, and it will be when your challenges are higher than average and skills are higher than average. View quote
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Competition is an easy way to get into flow. View quote
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the self expands through acts of self forgetfulness. View quote
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... It is when we act freely, for the sake of the action itself rather than for ulterior motives, that we learn to become more than what we were. (Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi)
It is by being fully involved with every detail of our lives, whether good or bad, that we find happiness, not by trying to look for it directly. View quote
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The psychic entropy peculiar to the human condition involves seeing more to do than one can actually accomplish and feeling able to accomplish more than what conditions allow. View quote
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It is better to look suffering straight in the eye, acknowledge and respect it's presence, and then get busy as soon as possible focusing on things we choose to focus on. View quote
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A person who forgoes the use of his symbolic skills is never really free. View quote
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As long as we respond predictably to what feels good and what feels bad, it is easy for others to exploit our preferences for their own ends. View quote
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Entropy is the normal state of consciousness - a condition that is neither useful nor enjoyable. View quote
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It does not seem to be true that work necessarily needs to be unpleasant. It may always have to be hard, or at least harder than doing nothing at all. But there is ample evidence that work can be enjoyable, and that indeed, it is often the most enjoyable part of life. View quote
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It is how people respond to stress that determines whether they will profit from misfortune or be miserable. View quote
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People who learn to control inner experience will be able to determine the quality of their lives, which is as close as any of us can come to being happy. View quote
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People without an internalized symbolic system can all too easily become captives of the media. (Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi)
Pleasure is an important component of the quality of life, but by itself it does not bring happiness. Pleasure helps to maintain order, but by itself cannot create a new order in consciousness. View quote
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Repression is not the way to virtue. When people restrain themselves out of fear, their lives are by necessity diminished. Only through freely chosen discipline can life be enjoyed and still kept within the bounds of reason. View quote
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The solution is to gradually become free of societal rewards and learn how to substitute for them rewards that are under one's own powers. This is not to say that we should abandon every goal endorsed by society; rather, it means that, in addition to or instead of the goals others use to bribe us with, we develop a set of our own. View quote
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Those who seek consolation in existing churches often pay for their peace of mind with a tacit agreement to ignore a great deal of what is known about the way the world works. View quote
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