Manfred F.R. Kets de Vries quotes

To some extent, of course, we're all impostors-we all play roles when on the stage of life, presenting a different public self than the private self we share with intimates, and morphing both selves as circumstances demand. Displaying a facade and misleading our audience are defensive behaviors learned early. (Manfred F.R. Kets de Vries)
Restructuring is a favorite tactic of antisocials who have reached a senior position in an organization. The chaos that results is an ideal smokescreen for dysfunctional leadership. Failure at the top goes unnoticed, while the process of restructuring creates the illusion of a strong, creative hand on the helm. View quote
Manfred F.R. Kets de Vries
Neurotic impostor CEOs are also highly likely to become addicted to consulting companies because reassurances provided by "impartial” outsiders compensate for the executives' feelings of insecurity. View quote
Manfred F.R. Kets de Vries
Fearing discovery of their "fraudulence,” they burden themselves with too much work to compensate for their lack of self-esteem and identity. Work/life balance is a meaningless concept to them. View quote
Manfred F.R. Kets de Vries
Narcissism is often the driving force behind the desire to obtain a leadership position. Perhaps individuals with strong narcissistic personality features are more willing to undertake the arduous process of attaining a position of power. View quote
Manfred F.R. Kets de Vries
To some extent, of course, we are all impostors. We play roles on the stage of life, presenting a public self that differs from the private self we share with intimates and morphing both selves as circumstances demand. Displaying a facade is part and parcel of the human condition. Indeed, one reason the feeling of being an impostor is so widespread is that society places enormous pressure on people to stifle their real selves. View quote
Manfred F.R. Kets de Vries
Despite the proven benefits of emotional intelligence, organizational life has typically been hostile to the inner world of feeling. Rationality is deemed superior to feeling, which can contaminate judgment. But without feeling there is no passion, and no action. View quote
Manfred F.R. Kets de Vries
CEOS who are neurotic impostors are also likely to become addicted to consulting companies. View quote
Manfred F.R. Kets de Vries