M. Scott Peck quotes - page 2

Love is the free exercise of choice. Two people love each other only when they are quite capable of living without each other but choose to live with each other. (M. Scott Peck)
Once we truly know that life is difficult - once we truly understand and accept it - then life is no longer difficult. Because once it is accepted, the fact that life is difficult no longer matters. View quote
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If we know exactly where we're going, exactly how to get there, and exactly what we'll see along the way, we won't learn anything. View quote
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When we avoid the legitimate suffering that results from dealing with problems, we also avoid the growth that problems demand from us. View quote
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The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers. View quote
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Life is difficult. This is a great truth, one of the greatest truths. It is a great truth because once we truly see this truth, we transcend it. Once we truly know that life is difficult-once we truly understand and accept it-then life is no longer difficult. Because once it is accepted, the fact that life is difficult no longer matters. View quote
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It is in the whole process of meeting and solving problems that life has meaning. Problems are the cutting edge that distinguishes between success and failure. Problems call forth our courage and our wisdom; indeed, they create our courage and our wisdom. It is only because of problems that we grow mentally and spiritually. It is through the pain of confronting and resolving problems that we learn. View quote
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Since [narcissists] deep down, feel themselves to be faultless, it is inevitable that when they are in conflict with the world they will invariably perceive the conflict as the world's fault. Since they must deny their own badness, they must perceive others as bad. They project their own evil onto the world. They never think of themselves as evil, on the other hand, they consequently see much evil in others. View quote
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The quickest way to change your attitude toward pain is to accept the fact that everything that happens to us has been designed for our spiritual growth. View quote
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How strange that we should ordinarily feel compelled to hide our wounds when we are all wounded! Community requires the ability to expose our wounds and weaknesses to our fellow creatures. It also requires the ability to be affected by the wounds of others... But even more important is the love that arises among us when we share, both ways, our woundedness. View quote
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Life is complex. Each one of us must make his own path through life. There are no self-help manuals, no formulas, no easy answers. The right road for one is the wrong road for another...The journey of life is not paved in blacktop; it is not brightly lit, and it has no road signs. It is a rocky path through the wilderness. (M. Scott Peck)
We cannot be a source for strength unless we nurture our own strength. View quote
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Everything that happens in life is there to aid our spiritual growth. View quote
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Life is difficult. View quote
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There can be no vulnerability without risk; there can be no community without vulnerability; there can be no peace, and ultimately no life, without community. View quote
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Ultimately love is everything. View quote
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One extends one's limits only by exceeding them. View quote
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We cannot let another person into our hearts or minds unless we empty ourselves. We can truly listen to him or truly hear her only out of emptiness. View quote
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The great awareness comes slowly, piece by piece. The path of spiritual growth is a path of lifelong learning. The experience of spiritual power is basically a joyful one. View quote
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We know a great deal more about the causes of physical disease than we do about the causes of physical health. View quote
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Since the primary motive of the evil is disguise, one of the places evil people are most likely to be found is within the church. What better way to conceal one's evil from oneself as well as from others than to be a deacon or some other highly visible form of Christian within our culture. (M. Scott Peck)
The best decision-makers are those who are willing to suffer the most over their decisions but still retain their ability to be decisive. View quote
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Abandon the urge to simplify everything, to look for formulas and easy answers, and to begin to think multidimensionally, to glory in the mystery and paradoxes of life, not to be dismayed by the multitude of causes and consequences that are inherent in each experience -- to appreciate the fact that life is complex. View quote
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True love is not a feeling by which we are overwhelmed. It is a committed, thoughtful decision. View quote
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The problem of unmet expectations in marriage is primarily a problem of stereotyping. Each and every human being on this planet is a unique person. Since marriage is inevitably a relationship between two unique people, no one marriage is going to be exactly like any other. Yet we tend to wed with explicit visions of what a "good” marriage ought to be like. Then we suffer enormously from trying to force the relationship to fit the stereotype and from the neurotic guilt and anger we experience when we fail to pull it off. View quote
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