Ted Haggard quotes

There is no such thing as a secret among our leaders; communication is very open and honest, and if it's not, then it can become seemingly brutal. You've heard my arguments for love, friends, and authenticity, but there are the deceivers, the manipulators, the control freaks, and the self-appointed teachers in the Body who would love to use our system for their own selfish purposes. We all know the realities of the old sin nature. (Ted Haggard)
I've never known anyone who has fallen into sin and been successfully restored by the formal church structure. Nor have I ever seen a formal church structure wisely deal with sin, enabling ministry to continue without interruption. View quote
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I am a firm believer in living as if there were no such thing as a secret. If we hide our sins and live in darkness, we will never get the healing we so desperately need; in fact, if it is hidden so well that we don't even recognize it, we may never even find forgiveness. View quote
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I did not have a homosexual relationship with a man in Denver. View quote
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How much is your sin going to cost me? View quote
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You know all the surveys say that evangelicals have the best sex life of any other group. View quote
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Don't punish people who repent; heal them. I don't believe that private sin requires public rebuke or removal from office if repentance is taking place. However, when no evidence of true repentance exists, then discipline is in order. View quote
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I am steady with my wife. I'm faithful to my wife. View quote
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The fact is I am guilty of sexual immorality. And I take responsibility for the entire problem. I am a deceiver and a liar. There's a part of my life that is so repulsive and dark that I have been warring against it for all of my adult life. View quote
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I called him to buy some meth, but I threw it away. View quote
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The third big idea is that we confess our sins to someone close to us--a friend or our spouse. I don't mean a public declaration of our shortcomings; I mean confession in the security of a trusted and living friend. (Ted Haggard)
I want a church I can stay in for years. I don't want surprises, scandals, or secrets from my church leaders. View quote
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Today's biggest headlines are stories about people who thought they were doing something that was secret: Jesse Jackson's secret girlfriend and child, Monica Lewinski's private meetings with the president and confidential girl talk with Linda Tripp. Just think of the news stories we've watched on television... View quote
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I bought it for myself but never used it. I was tempted, but I never used it. View quote
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So many times, I've seen men and women get into trouble when they travel away from home because they believe that no one will ever know what they do when away. This is a lie, and it will always come back to haunt you. In Genesis 38, the Bible tells the story of Judah, who went on a business trip. When he arrived at a distant town, he saw a prostitute and approached her to sleep with her. But he didn't have any money to pay her, so he had to give her some personal items as a down payment. Of course, everyone knew those items belonged to him, and soon what he had done in secret, far away from home, was a public matter. And, again, we're reading about his hypocrisy thousands of years later. His actions have brought shame to his entire famiy for many generations. It's just not worth it. I remember an old tent preacher saying, sin will take you further than you want to go; cost you more than you want to pay; and keep you longer than you want to stay. View quote
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It was during the massage that it started to become sensual, and that led to him masturbating me... That was and is our only sexual contact. View quote
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I think I know what you did last night. If you send me a thousand dollars, I won't tell your wife. View quote
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People know what's going on with other people. So, we are wise if we live our lives as if there are no secrets. If we have nothing to hide, then there's nothing for people to discover, and we're clean. Living as if there is no such thing as a secret will keep you from all kinds of pain and suffering, and it will open the door for you to receive God's love more fully. Live as if there is nothing to hide and you will maintain innocence. View quote
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During the conversation with Mike during and after the time he masturbated me, he told me about some drugs that he could get for me that would enhance my masturbation experience. View quote
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I actually used them three times, throwing them away in shame before use two times. It is for these offenses that I confessed being immoral and deceitful. View quote
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I was referred to Mike Jones from the concierge at a Marriott hotel when I asked for a masseur. (Ted Haggard)
You called my children animals! View quote
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A fantasy of mine is to have an orgy with about six young college guys ranging from 18 to 22 in age. View quote
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I went there for a massage. View quote
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I am convinced: people with pure hearts live better lives! Actually, one of the things I look for in a staff member is innocence. I love it when a person is not full of malice or unforgiveness or is not wrestling with secret sin. You can just tell by their countenance-they are wonderful people to be around. View quote
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