Alain de Botton quotes - page 4

Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice. (Alain de Botton)
Must being in love always mean being in pain? View quote
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Dreams reveal we never quite get 'over' anything: it's all still in there somewhere. View quote
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality. View quote
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else. View quote
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty. View quote
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be. View quote
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from. View quote
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time. View quote
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease. View quote
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear. (Alain de Botton)
Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love. View quote
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I passionately believe that's it's not just what you say that counts, it's also how you say it - that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it. View quote
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery. View quote
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We are sensitized by the books we read. And the more books we read, and the deeper their lessons sink into us, the more pairs of glasses we have. And those glasses enable us to see things we would have otherwise missed. View quote
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live. View quote
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes. View quote
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things. View quote
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy. View quote
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We used to build temples, and museums are about as close as secular society dares to go in facing up to the idea that a good building can change your life (and a bad one ruin it). View quote
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand. (Alain de Botton)
Love is an incurable disease. In love, there is permanent suffering. Those who love and those who are happy are not the same. View quote
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A dominant impulse on encountering beauty is to wish to hold on to it, to possess it and give it weight in one's life. There is an urge to say, ‘I was here, I saw this and it mattered to me. View quote
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We wanted to test each other's capacity for survival: only if we had tried in vain to destroy one another would we know we were safe. View quote
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A 'good job' can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to. View quote
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